Jika hanya kau seorang yang benar

Sederhana berucap dan bersikap bukan lantas menjadikan diri menjadi rendah.
Di dalam ruang yang bernama dunia ini hanya ada dua, benar dan salah. Jika kau merasa benar, tak lantas kau anggap semua orang salah. Pun jika kau merasa salah, tak perlulah kau anggap dirimu jualah paling salah. Kau tak sendiri di ruang ini. Benar itu sikap. Salah itu khilaf. Yang benar membenarkan dengan sikap. Yang salahpun membenarkan dengan akal.
Jika hanya kau seorang yang benar, apa itu sudah benar?Benar bukanlah benar jika tidak ada salah. Benar dan salah itu pilihan. Jika seseorang melakukan salah, belum tentu itu salah. Yang salah itu adalah jika kau seorang yang merasa benar.
Jika hanya kau seorang yang benar, lalu untuk apa telingamu diciptakan? Dengarkan..hanya dengarkanlah..Mendengar itu sulit..Berbicara itu pelik..
Tidak ada manusia paling benar.. Tidak ada manusia sempurna..Satu saja, hargai sesama apapun pilihannya itulah yang paling mulia.

Kenali Diri

Ketika mulut sibuk oceh sana sini, mungkin satu yang perlu diuji
Sudah cukupkah kenali diri sendiri

Diriku...Dirimu...Berbeda...
Tahukan arti berbeda?
Berbeda berarti cukup hargai
Berbeda berarti cukup hormati

Pantaskah lalu kau menghakimi
Jalan hidup yang tak secuilpun  kau ketahui
Sudah benarkah hidupmu kini
Jika hanya komentari 

Aku kini, tidak tiba-tiba terjadi
Aku kini, sudah lalui
Jalan panjang yang tak kau ketahui
Aku kini sendiri jalani

Sudahkah kau kenali
Dirimu sendiri?
 

--When other people judge me--

Sebagai seorang muslimah, kita wajib menjaga lisan dan perkataan.Mengapa?Karena satu huruf saja kita salah berucap mungkin dapat menyakiti perasaan orang lain.Semoga segala ucapan saya terutama, dijaga oleh Allah dari menyakiti perasaan orang lain. 

Adalah persepsi,yang menyebabkan antara satu dan lain diantara kita menjadi salah paham.Karena persepsi dan yang di pikiran orang lain terhadap sesuatu jelas berbeda tergantung dari dua hal yaitu : frame of reference dan field of experience.Jelaslah apa yang menjadi referensi kita dan pengalaman kita masing-masing berbeda.Jadi the point is,never judge other people with your only  opinion..because maybe your opinion unaccepted in others..

Juga,karena kita tidak pernah menjadi orang lain dan kita tidak pernah tau apa yang Ada di hati mereka atau bahkan apa yang sudah mereka lalui.So please stop judging others. "Judging a person does not define who they are..it defines who you are.."

Jadi menurut saya,kita harus mau dan mampu mendengar penjelasan orang lain dahulu atas apa yang kita dengar serta jangan semata-mata menjudge dari apa yang kita pikirkan.So please, listen :)

Karena menurut saya A belum tentu menurut seratus bahkan seribu orang A juga...so the point is just listen :)

Wassalam,

Me,the imperfect one ;)

My new Treasures :)

Super hurray for my new treasures. Can't wait to wear them all. I love the color and the pattern. The pastel pashmina color is isteresting. I bought them from the hijabstore in my hometown. Do you believe that the beautiful pashmina is so cheap in price? Yess that is shocking me, the price was so cheap but I love them for the beautiful color..Colorful color makes me so happy and cheerful. I love pastel ;)

This pashmina and shawls below is so interesting too. Look at the color and patterns was so unique. That's all from Dian Pelangi. She is hijab designer from Indonesia. The collection is always colorful and unique. I love it. She is my inspiration too. Beautiful, talented and great. I hope someday i could be like her. Great mom, great wife and great woman InshaAllah...

Late Post : Holiday with my besties

Im so happy and enjoy holiday with my besties on early march yesterday. She is my best friend ever. I know her since 7 years old when we are in the same elementary school. And now we stiil be best friends. Named Titian Dyah Nirwana. She is cheerful, pleaseful, kind, good listener and so on and so on and so on.
Where will we go beib?Singaporeeeeee...yessss..Our own trip and our new experience  by ourselves.

 Only these photos could describe the feelings :

 Meet the Panda.. So excited!!

LOL Don't try to do this (taking photo on MRT station) or you will warn by officer...LOL

Just the two of us

How I enjoyed my korean food. Bismillah InshaAllah Halal....LOL

Look at me or I will kiss you mmumuaaah

Tired actually but we still on camera ahahaha

Universal Studios

L.O.V.E

Ready to go

Heii You eat a lot!!

Nasi Briyani was so delicious..

Until we see you again..

Friendship is close to happiness...I love you my besties.. Run for Life!!!

When Someone Let You Down

Take a deep breath and enjoy. That is my favourite motto recently when someone or something let me down. Sounds strange when I have to enjoy the dissapointed things. Errkkk. But it's working on me. Someone who let you down is just the other way to create the "best" you. Best means stronger, patient, tough, better, great and amazing you. The best way when we are always in comforz area is go out from it. Maybe this is one of the way to out of our comfort zone. Being dissapointed. Yeah when someone or something have let you down so that's the time for us to change. So we have to thankful to them. By the way thanks dude for letting me down so that I became stronger than yesteday. So the point is keep positive for all things that happened in our life. Maybe the worst becaming the best. Cheer up and the worlds will do the same. Fight!!

Yeayy Transformers!!!! Transform your life !!!

cHeER UP....
CHEER UP....     
CHEERS

Choice is responsibilities best friends ever

As long as we live we still need a choice. This is the most difficult things to do in people's life. Why? Some people things it's difficult because of the choices all the best but for me difficult of because when we have choose something so we need to responsible with our choice. Responsible means we have to ready to face all the risk that might caused from our choice itself. Responsible is also means that we must able to respond the effect of our choice, whether it is good or bad for us. Responsible is also a choice for us, some people often can't be responsible for the choice that they have made so they can't go strong and tough for their problems. So do I, Until now I think Im still have problem to face all the risk that caused from the choice i've been made. 

In Islam, we have a special pray to face the choice in our life. It is called Sholat Istikharah. This is the prayer to Allah that hope and pray which is the best choice for our life. The answer of this prayer is our beliefs of the choice itself. Yess this is the best things to do when we face a difficult choice in our life cos Allah knows the best things for us and only Allah is the best Guidance for us. AllahuAkbar. 

So, dont be afraid to make a decision in your life. No matter what the bad things or good things, we have to stay strong and tough for our great life that Allah been created. And choice is responsibilities best friends ever ;)